I haven’t had a cell phone for about 5 years. Don’t miss it.
And I was trying to think why it was I enjoyed not having one.
It took me a while to figure out why, but it’s because when I did have one I usually turned it off. Why ? For years I did database server and VMS support. The servers were set up to sms my cell phone (or whoever was on support) if things needed attention. And because I was also a software developer other developers would phone me with software, server and DB questions.
They’d phone at all hours too.
Even after I no longer worked at that client site.
For months.
So when I started with the small startup I worked for I finally got the sms messaging sorted out with my now former client. They were decomissioning the servers anyways so I just turned the phone off at night until they got rid of all the servers that would sms me. (all 120 of them !)
The start up was nice for a while. And I never took many calls on my cell except if I was out at a clients site looking a machine over or on the road. And I got much better at NOT answering every phone on every ring anyways. We’re all so conditioned to hear the ring pick it up. That took a while and it was important as it let me control when I took the call, or did whatever that caller wanted.
It gave me control over my time again.
And I liked that as it gave me the control do work on things for long periods with out distraction.
However, with my wife and kids working out of the house I’m getting back in to the pick up when it rings habit and that’s not always good because I don’t have 2 lines. My home phone is also my work phone.
Combine that with picking up when it rings and I lose control over my time. People can phone any old time and, short of me being very rude and hanging up if I am busy, it’s hard to say “Not right now” and then you get distracted from what you were working on to something else. Sometimes it’s 5 minutes and sometimes it’s 4 hours.
I’m finding that’s not useful as it takes a while to get back to what you were doing (if and when you get back to it) There’s a growing body of research that suggests we’re not as good at multitasking as we might like to think we are. I know I find it distracting and the longer the distraction lasts the harder it is to get back to the original task.
I try to schedule when I’ll work on things, but these sort of interruptions can really throw everything out of whack.
So sometimes I just take the phone off the hook now and check for messages. (I hate the sound of a ringing phone aand we have several in the house so turning all the ringers down is a pain)
I just take one phone off the hook and then I can work without someone else imposing their urgent requests on what I’m up to (yeah iChat is still probably running but sometimes I even quit that)
Getting rid of the cell phone was a major revelation to me that I really do like being in control of my own time. It is kind of nice once you get used to it.